Thursday, January 27, 2011

Which do you use "like" or "unlike"?

I have been wondering which I should use "like" or "unlike" in negative sentences.

For example, I came across the following sentence.

One woman whose desk is very cluttered says;
His desk isn't covered by stacks of paper like mine.

When I heard the sentence, I thought her desk was also neat (like him). If her desk was very messy, I think she should have said, "His desk isn't covered by stacks of paper unlike mine."

If somebody says, "He doesn't like animals like John.", I wonder if John likes animals or not.

6 comments:

Unknown said...

Hi Sand,

If you use unlike this way it has additional connotation (subtle meanings) such as perhaps the women is busier or a harder worker than the man because she has lot more paperwork on her desk.

But they both mean that his desk is not clutter but hers is.

Liam (lang-8.com/liam)

sand said...

Hi Liam,

Thank you for visiting my blog! How are you?

I appreciate your explanation. I understand it well.
Thank you!

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sand said...

Avinash,

Thank you for your comment!
I've been a bit busy, but I come back.(^.^)

Mike said...

The last example you use is interesting. As a native American English speaker, I understand this sentence as suggesting that John is an animal. This is a nuance of informal incorrect language use by native speakers. Someone might say:
"He doesn't like animals, like bears and tigers."
While saying, "He doesn't like animals, such as bears and tigers." would be more accurate.
It's hard to explain, I hope I made it easier to understand.

To convey what you want to say, I would change the order of words:

"Like John, he doesn't like animals".

This is 100% correct, but sounds slightly stilted when used in a casual conversation. You might be better off saying, "John and him both don't like animals."

sand said...

Mike,

Oh---! My sentence suggests that John is an animal!?!? Oops!

Thank you for your explanation. I understand well.
Also, thank you for the useful example sentences!